Life lesson one: don’t be with like-minded
people all the time.
There are few reasons why you are
not happy and satisfied on you. One main reason that you want some like-minded
people with whom you can have ordinary fun and you want to be in your safe
zone. But the truth is, if you always look for your safe zone then you will never
learn much and will improve yourself. So, it is really suicidal wanting to be
in safe zone. You have to tell that I am looking for people who are different than
me. I like to talk and have time with people who are way much opposite than me.
Then I will learn from them or at least, I will see something different.
Life lesson two: remember your goal
The second reason is, you are still
not much goal oriented who only cares about his own goals and dream. That’s why
you still have time to worry about those silly things which really does not
matter. You should think that it is your life and your path. It is crystal
clear to you what you want in life and how you want. The more you will be
focused on your goal, the more meaningful life you will lead where you will
have less time to think and care about others. Never give a fucking shit to
others unless they matter to you.
Life lesson there: judging is wrong.
Don’t judge you all the time and don’t
judge others as well. You already have learnt that judging is very stupid idea
where you will be always wrong. Unless you are 100% sure about something, do
not make any decision about that. You know that you never will know all the
story and truth behind everything. How little we know even someone is our
family member. How much do I know about my father? I know what he says, but
have I ever seen how he thinks inside. And if it is like this for your parents,
then what about a person you do not know at all.
Life lesson four: stop trying to be
good at everything.
It is some unnecessary stress trying
to be good at everything when it is literally not possible. There are millions
of things in this world which you even have time to think and try about. Even all
the most successful people on earth was good at something but not in
everything. So, what you need to do is to find out your passion, strength and
need. Then you should think which things you need most in your life and you
want to put your effort on. If you spend some time, make a list and work on it.
For sure, you will lead a meaningful and successful and satisfied life.
Life lesson five: stop trying to be
attractive to everyone.
Why you have to be attractive to everyone?
Do you really need everyone? If you try to be attractive to only for the people
who are important to you and put all your effort there, then you will do well
in that. But if you are busy to satisfy everyone you see around, then you will
get lost. So for everything you should be goal oriented. What you want and how
you want.
Lesson six: take actions
When you have learnt what the right
path to walk in is, then you should only go and enjoy your journey. No matter
how it is, good, bad, easy or difficult. That is your path and you must take
action for every steps and everything you do and want to do. Only actions can
take you to your success.